MR. WRONG.. " Me and Mr. Wrong get along so good, even though he breaks my heart so bad."- Mary J

If you knew how special you were to God, you would literally go through your phone right now and delete " Mr. Wrong", block him, and never look back again. If you could only see how he loves you so much, that he hates to see your heart broken, he despises your heart being stepped on and misused. If you could only see that you are deemed a the highest value you would NEVER settle for less than you deserve ever again. I only dream of you knowing that you are such a delicacy to God and that he wants you to be treated like a queen.

So very often we in this generation find ourselves in " situationships" where we actually try to force ourselves to believe that it's a real relationship and that God is in the midst. It's really interesting when we know that God has no parts and yet we will try to make it work.. NO not no more!

Listen, sis GOD DOES NOT OPERATE IN DYSFUNCTION!

If the relationship that you're in now is not flowing in the will of God, then 99.9% chances tell us that it's not ordained by God. So many times we as women think that we can change a man, we do not have the power to change anyone, only God can do that. It doesn't matter how pretty you are, how much money you make, how well you can cook, or how much you feed his flesh, it will not work if God is not in the midst. If you find yourself forcing it, stop. If you find yourself asking God over and over for a sign, after he has already given you 13multiple red flags, stop.

God will not bless what he has not ordained!

Mr. Right will come along, when you let go of what you had in mind and let God do the work. God has already chosen someone for you, but he will not send him because right now you will mishandle your blessing. How can he send the right one, when you are still entertaining the wrong one?

I've been there and it's not the easiest thing to do when you are so used to operating in dysfunction because you don't know what real love is, but when you release your expectations and trust God he will surely blow your mind. There is someone in store for you that is so special and just think, God created him for you. That's how awesome God is, he doesn't call us to do life alone, but sometimes we have to get it wrong in order to seek God on how to do it right. So even if you find yourself in a place right now, that you know God is not pleased with, ask him to help you let it go. Will it be easy? No! Will it be worth it? Absolutely!

God is going to do just what he has promised, but sis you have to be willing to do your part also.

1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 " Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous: love does not brag and is not arrogant, love does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth, bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

Tierra London